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Lotus and Lavender Burial

Bringing Natural Burial to the Seacoast

Lotus and Lavender Burial is a Seacoast-based nonprofit working to create a natural (or green) burial cemetery to serve coastal New Hampshire and Southern Maine. We think that we’re in the home stretch of receiving approval from the IRS to operate financially as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, a process that can take a year or more! As we move closer to our nonprofit approval, we’re starting to look in earnest for the land for the cemetery - see below for more details.

Announcements!

We are looking for land! What we need to get started is:

  • At least 3 acres in a rural or semi-rural setting

  • Mostly cleared land (preferable)

  • Within 30 minutes of Portsmouth (preferable)

  • No wetlands within 100ft

A gift, sale or long-term lease of land to Lotus and Lavender Burial could be advantageous for the landowner, the environment and our community. We would love to discuss possibilities with you or whomever you think of to connect us with. Discussions or suggestions will remain confidential.

We are available for private green burial consulting and death doula work!

What is green burial?

For most of human existence, bodies were buried in the ground to decompose after death. As humans tend to do, we’ve evolved this process to become complicated, toxic and expensive. What is now being called green burial is a return to the traditional practice of simply burying a body in the ground and not impeding the natural decomposition process. This method allows the body to nourish the environment while creating the opportunity for a beautiful farewell and final resting place in nature.

At Lotus and Lavender Burial Cemetery, everything put into the ground will be easily biodegradable and we will partner with local artisans for simple pine coffins, wool burial shrouds, and wicker caskets. The graves can be marked with native stones or plantings and live and dried flowers will be available for services. The land will forever be accessible to visit as a place of remembrance and reminder of the interconnectedness of life. 

Some Criteria and Characteristics of Green Burial Cemeteries:

  • Caring for the dead with minimal environmental impact that aids in the conservation of natural resources

  • Reduction of carbon emissions

  • Protection of funeral home and cemetery worker health

  • Foregoes toxic embalming

  • Does away with vaults

  • Chooses biodegradable containers, caskets, or shrouds

  • Discontinues herbicides, pesticides, fertilizers

“Bill’s green burial was the only funeral I have ever been to that made me feel good, instead of awful.  It felt hopeful, not sad.”

- Perry King

How does this compare to other options?

Conventional Burial

What Americans put in the ground each year:

  • 20 million board feet of wood - often exotic wood from the rainforest

  • 17,000 tons of copper and bronze

  • 4.3 million gallons of embalming fluid

  • 64,500 tons of steel - often imported

  • 1.6 million tons of reinforced concrete - roughly 1-2 tons per grave

Cremation

Health risks

Funeral home and cemetery workers are routinely exposed to chemicals known to cause cancer and neurological diseases.

Sources: Green Burial Council and hyperlinks

What else is special about green burial?

  • Sequesters 25lbs of carbon

  • Allows our final choice to honor and nourish the environment - “return to nature” - “ashes to ashes”

  • More room for closure through direct involvement

  • Conserves land from development

  • Our molecules are able to return to nature to be recycled, a natural decomposition process that’s vital to our planet’s functioning

  • Gives our loved ones a beautiful farewell in nature and final resting in a place they may be more comfortable spending time afterwards

“Being pro-green burial doesn’t make anyone anti-funeral or anti-cremation. Above all, we’re for having the ability to choose and are working to fill a gap that Seacoast families have been missing for years.” - Hanna Goffinet, Funeral Director, Dover, NH

From our founder, Sarah:

“I treasure existing cemeteries and appreciate the creativity and flexibility that cremation provides.”

“I dream of a future where existing cemeteries are honored and beautifully maintained. Where cremation is proudly chosen when it’s the right fit.”

“And where new cemeteries are integrated with parks, trail systems or conservation land for more sustainable land use and to enhance communities with more vibrant natural spaces to enjoy.”

“Where an environmentally sustainable option becomes widely available and the impact of our current practices become common knowledge, allowing more informed decisions.”

What’s next?

There are currently 420+ green burial cemeteries in the US. We’re working hard to make this option available in the Seacoast but we can’t accomplish this alone! Reach out to us with how you’d like to get involved and join the newsletter to stay in the loop. We’re on the lookout for co-creators and collaborations around land. Reach out and let’s see what’s possible!